
After 20+ hours of labor and then a C-Section Jaiden Carter Combs has finally arrived. He was born Saturday December 19th at 8:02 pm weighing 6lbs 15ozs, 20 inches long. I’d say expecting the unexpected was the theme for his labor and delivery… not going to lie, it was rough; but I’d do it again tomorrow if I had to. He’s absolutely perfect and we love him so much already. My labor started at 11:50 on Friday night with my water breaking. I heard a slight popping noise and then came the gush. I had every intention of laboring as long as possible from home, but after getting in the shower, I realized that I had meconium staining. The Doctor had talked with us about the possibility of this happening and said that it was really important to get to the hospital quickly because both baby and I will need to be monitored extra closely. We arrived at the hospital around 2am and the chaos had began. I won’t get into all the nitty gritty details, but to sum it all up labor was slow, super intense, full of back labor, and the clock was ticking. In an ideal world, when meconium staining is present, Doctors usually like to have baby out within 12 to 18 hours. There is a large risk for infections and other potential problems the longer baby lingers inside. I was given an epidural at 12:15 and felt some relief, but little did I know that feeling would soon subside. I had roughly 2 hours of slight relief, and then the rest of the time.... absolutely nothing. My epidural didn’t work and all the nurses, doctors, and anesthesiologists were baffled. I no longer had any relief and was now feeling every second of pain and pressure with each coming contraction. I was put on oxygen and had to have an internal monitor placed on babys head because his heartbeat was slowing. By 5pm I had finally dilated to 9 and a half cm and this is where everything gets crazy. After being at 9 ½ cm for over 2 hours, the Doctor came in said we needed to talk. My cervix had not made any progress in hours and said that it truly was hard to say whether or not I would ever get to 10 cm and said we should probably start talking about a c-section. Anyone that has been in labor knows that being at 9 ½ cm and not being allowed to push is pretty much impossible, especially with no medical relief. The pressure was so intense and had taken all the energy I had left out of me. I had now reached 20 hours of labor and babys heartbeat wasn’t where they were hoping it would be. The Doctor left the room so we could talk about what we wanted to do, and in the next contraction I was screaming to get him back in the room and that I was alright with going ahead with a c-section. The anesthesiologist came in to administer the anesthesia for the c-section and then I was wheeled away. In the OR I kept telling the team of 8 people that the anesthesia was NOT working. I could feel everything still. They kept saying that it would kick in soon and I was so ready for this to happen. I never had any intentions on doing 20 hours of labor with no relief. They were washing my belly and through ragged breathing from contractions I kept commenting on how cold the soap was. They kept saying there is no way you can feel this. Hmmm, you are getting ready to cut me open and I can feel everything, someone needs to start believing me here because at this point I was freaking out. They hung up the curtain so I could no longer see anything and said that they were going to pinch me with this terrifying looking instrument… I nearly jumped off the table when they did it, and I could see that they finally believed me. They immediately decided that they had to put me under and then out came the gas. I’m sure Kevin was surprised when he walked into the room and saw me out cold, tubes in my mouth, tape over my eyes, and another oxygen mask over my nose. Definitely not what I had envisioned and planned on, but luckily everything went perfectly. I don’t want anyone to get the wrong impression, I loved my Doctor. The epidural not working only happens to such a small percentage of people that they were just so surprised! The Doctors did an amazing job and I’m so pleased with how everything turned out. The NICU nurses were in the OR ready to monitor little monkey as soon as he came out. I finally woke up an hour after he was born to my mom shaking me and telling me Jaiden was here. I will never forget what it was like seeing him for the first time. He was absolutely perfect and I would honestly go through all the pain and chaos for him again in a heartbeat. Our stay in the hospital was wonderful. We had the most caring nursing staff working with us. The only rough patch we had with Jaiden was his bilirubin levels. At around 1am on Tuesday we were woken up by a couple nurses telling us that his levels weren’t improving enough for him to be discharged the following morning. They were going to test him again at 8am, but if his levels hadn’t made a major improvement he would have to stay in the NICU for a couple days. They had brought us the “bili” lamp to use throughout the night and told me that the more I nursed, the better off he would be. Enough said. I stayed awake the entire night and nursed him every hour on the hour. The pediatrician came in after he had the results and said that I deserved a blue ribbon. I had nursed more than anyone else on the floor and his levels had dropped enough for him to be discharged. Wooooohooo! We arrived home late Tuesday and it felt amazing. There was always different people coming in to monitor Jaiden and I that being at home was so much more peaceful than I had dreamed. I am trying to stay as low key as I can because of the c-section and am enjoying every moment with our little guy. I have slight pain and discomfort throughout the day, but the worst part is all the swelling. Because of the meconium staining and long labor I was given 11 liters of fluid!!! Yuck! I thought I was swollen before! Hopefully only a couple more days of that.
Although Jaiden is only 5 days old, he has changed our lives forever. It’s truly amazing how you can love someone so much in such a short time. He is a perfect addition to our family and we are enjoying every moment with him. We can’t wait for you all to meet him. We have truly been blessed beyond belief this holiday season and are thanking God for all he has given us. Merry Christmas to all our family and friends. We love you.















































